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Where Family Law and Psychology Intersect

Linda Hershman? Some people call her a “know-it-all,” and she is! Author of Gray Divorce: Everything You Need to Know About Later-Life Breakups, Hershman talks to Host Glass about splitting up after decades of marriage or an intimate partner relationship. She tells Glass it’s becoming a trend now among people over fifty. Why? That is what Hershman, author and researcher of 31 years on this topic lays out in her dialogue with Glass. She shares percentages and statistics. Hershman opines on the impact COVID has had on long-term relationships, today’s human longevity, changes in retirement goals, and personal growth patterns. She also discusses the impact on the children of older couples who break up and how to handle them moving forward. She brings Glass up to date on Gray Divorce projections and what society can expect on this front in the not-so-distant future. Hershman, a prominent Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, who recently stepped back from a busy practice, now offers “discernment counseling,” which helps couples decide if they should split or seek counseling instead. She now oversees the Couples and Wellness Center in suburban Philadelphia. Hershman has been interviewed by the New York Times on Gray Divorce, and her written articles have been published in other major publications. She is also an educator and lecturer on the topic world-wide. In this fascinating interview, Certified Family Law Specialist, Host Glass, also a former psychologist, talks indiscriminately about numbers and issues based on his background in managing his Gray Divorce client cases. Because of Host Glass’s experience as a therapist, he brings to the fore an even deeper understanding of the Gray Divorce phenomenon.

Author and Prominent Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), Linda Hershman, talks all sides of the new cultural phenom, Gray Divorce: Who opts for one and why?

With numbers escalating among those aged 50 or older, “Gray Divorce” is becoming the norm. Host Glass’s guest, prominent Licensed Marriage, Family Therapist (LFMT), Linda Hershman, gives us an in-depth view of this new trend—why it’s happening, who is doing it, and the reasons this group is opting out of marriages/intimate partner relationships that have endured, sometimes for decades. To round out Season 8’s LookingGLASS blog series, Glass offers this entry to help podcast viewers understand what Gray Divorce is, exactly. He digs into why the increased number of them in the past few years, how to prepare for one, common mistakes people make during their Gray Divorce transition, and the impact of one on all family members, especially a couple’s grown children. He also focuses on the business side of one, with pointers on how to pay close attention to financial planning, the importance of preparing a monthly budget, and how to make sure one’s share of properties and assets are protected and divided equitably.

With numbers escalating among those aged 50 or older, “Gray Divorce” is becoming the norm. Host Glass’s guest, prominent Licensed Marriage, Family Therapist (LFMT), Linda Hershman, gives us an in-depth view of this new trend—why it’s happening, who is doing it, and the reasons this group is opting out of marriages/intimate partner relationships that have endured, sometimes for decades. To round out Season 8’s LookingGLASS blog series, Glass offers this entry to help podcast viewers understand what Gray Divorce is, exactly. He digs into why the increased number of them in the past few years, how to prepare for one, common mistakes people make during their Gray Divorce transition, and the impact of one on all family members, especially a couple’s grown children. He also focuses on the business side of one, with pointers on how to pay close attention to financial planning, the importance of preparing a monthly budget, and how to make sure one’s share of properties and assets are protected and divided equitably.

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This new Episode features Linda Hershman, arguably one of the world’s most studied and knowledgeable experts on Gray Divorce, shared the culmination of her 31 years of experience as a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and shared them with Host Glass. She broke it all down as to why many intimate partners over 50 opt out of their long-term relationships, and how to handle the split. She pulled from her “brass tacks” book, Gray Divorce: Everything You Need to Know About Later-Life Breakups. Host Glass, a former psychologist, chimed in to share the commonalities in her book among many in his client base who fit in the “Gray Divorce” category. Season 8 was an eclectic mix of experts who talked readily on such topics as relationship abuse, protective legislation, parental alienation, and co-parenting. Karen Buscemi (Episode 10), author and columnist who writes about divorce/relationship/family issues; Darlene Taylor (Episode 9) shared her fifteen pearls of wisdom for forging a collaborative co-parenting approach with an ex. Dr. Kenneth Adams (Episode 8) who described “enmeshment” when a parent leans on the child to become the surrogate “intimate partner. Parental Alienation, (Episodes 1 and 7), featured two dads whose stories seem unreal, but they’re true. And Domestic Violence, with Senator Susan Rubio gave viewers a thorough understanding of what constitutes it. In Episode 3, with guest, Alesia Litteral, talked about that topic as a survivor after an attack by her husband, who nearly killed her. A similar theme was covered (in Episodes 4 and 5) with Mark Geragos and Matt Murphy, well known for their work on the Domestic Violence crime front.

“Gray Divorce.” Author, researcher, therapist, and expert, Linda Hershman, featured in the New York Times, and author of Gray Divorce: Everything You Need to Know About Later-Life Breakups, explains it all in easy-to-understand talking points; especially when Host Glass asks how it impacts the couple’s adult children, even once they are grown.

In case you need to catch up, binge earlier Prior Seasons/Episodes where you can choose from more than 200-plus interviews and a slew of topics on breakups. (Links are on the landing page). More compelling guests and Episodes are on their way in Episode 9!

Whether this is your first episode or you have been with us from the beginning, explore Seasons 1 through 8 below and discover conversations that matter.

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