

Dr. Kenneth M. Adams - Psychologist/Author
Enmeshment-parent/child overreach

In this LookingGlass entry, Host Glass offers both tips and reasons why it is so important to maintain a “workable” relationship with your ex when it comes to the child(ren), despite your differences. Most of his pointers are hard-hitting and may leave you thinking twice about how you approach day-to-day dealings with your ex. While many parents count the days until they will no longer have to interface with their ex as the co-parent (assuming it will only be a matter of time before they need to continue to do so—meaning once the child(ren) become of age and leave the nest, they will no longer need to have any connection or relationship with their ex)—he counters the idea; says that presumption is not true. There really is no end to co-parenting with an ex unless one or more of the parties is no longer living. There will be many major events, like weddings, funerals, birthdays, and other memorable milestones including holidays and the births of grandchildren. Forging a “workable” co-parenting approach is a must. In this blog entry, Glass carefully and methodically ticks off a list of sensible and effective strategies to reach that goal. It starts with one’s mindset. When looking at the problem from a distance, through a different lens, and objectively, a co-parent can begin to see how their actions and words will likely affect the child(ren) long after they become adults. Glass coaxes the audience co-parent to ask themselves this question: Will what I’m saying or doing—my behaviors and communication—be to the benefit of my children, or not? If the answer is no, it’s time to change course and consider how to forge a working relationship with your ex.

8 Episodes

Comic talks about his own humor experiences, then turns tables and interviews Host Glass

Talks seriously about divorce and how her standup career kept her even and grounded

Impressionist, actor, keeps viewers laughing while sharing philosophy on breakups

Talk relationship, parenting and more
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